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ayer en la mañana nos despertó una llamada! y the cute Hubby se levantó y contestó lo escuche preocupado en el telefono y cuando regresó le pregunte ¿quien era? ¿que pasó? so he sas: Angel is freaking out.. turns out his girlfriend came to visit and while she was here she decided she wasnt going back home! she wants to stay!  so she tells him to go to her hometown with her and tell her dad that they are going to get married! so he goes!
and now he is freaking out! LOL he doesnt have a job or anything like that, she is 19! and has never worked in her life! Her dad freaked and told her that if she left she was all alone, so she came back with nothing!!

Angel is feeling bad, about the whole thing.. and obviously not being able to provide for her, they dont even have an apartment.. he called the hubby and we went over yesterday to meet her and talk to them, I dont know what to think of her but he is a good guy so the hubby told him he would give him a job and help him out a bit! on the way back home we were talking about how great and blessed we were to have an apartment, a car (old VW car LOL), jobs, and we are older and mature! she was talking about suffering together and while she was saying that I was thinking to myself SUFFERING!? we dont suffer, we are enduring and it clicked! We have the blessing to endure many things together, we dont suffer! that was a big bright light that went on in my brain!
and then I felt bad for her, and her perspective... we got home and I told him how very greatful I was for our little car, and our little house and the opportunity that we have to work together to get better and prosper in all aspects of our lives! and most importantly of being able to recognize the big picture!
So the blessing of the day was the car! we were able to go see angel and in a way offer some comfort to him! and of course the ability that we have to endure with the help of our loving Heavenly Father instead of suffering!